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Roll of Honor Lillianna
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You're welcome, mein Liebling. []

Have a good evening! It's been awesome to see you around on the board. And take some time for yourself to just have some fun. []

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So, bisexual UPers, what do I not get here?
[] Hey, don't look at me, we're not all cheating scumbags. [] If she's "confused", that's fine, but if she's selfish enough to think her confusion means she can play with other people's emotions then you're well shot of her.

SEVENTEEN DAAAAAAAAAAYS!!!!
*does the New York fandango*
I can't believe it. I've just seen the Criminal Minds episode where Reid is all squeeey because he's visiting NY for the first time, and I was shouting, "I KNOW, RIGHT??!!!" at the TV.

P.S. Sorry for my absence: I've been really busy at work, plus the blood drive nurse STUCK ME LIKE A PEEG and I lost the use of my arm temporarily. Evil fauxhawked tiny lesbians should not be allowed to play with needles, apparently. []

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Wifey ! [] []

I just re-read the "5 weird things about me" thread. It's hilarious []

E : I kinda wanted to create a thread using the facebook idea of "25 things about me" (not weird, though) but thought it would be kinda self-centered []

[ 02-10-2009, 07:34 PM: Message edited by: Inc' ]

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Jackson is going to be on Criminal Minds... []
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Theney!!! [] [] *does NY excitement dance with you* [] Hope your arm feels better. []

And I'm excited for the long weekend coming up! I will being going to Chico where hopefully I can catch up on writing, visit a lot with the fams and eat again at my favorite breakfast place EVAR called "The Sin of Cortez." []

edit: by the way, speaking of exes, I have an opposite situation from Belly. Nick keeps trying to get me to come onto the webcam to assist his "tension releasing sessions" (that's about as mildly as I can put it). I laugh in his face. That's what porn is for, dude. []

[ 02-10-2009, 07:59 PM: Message edited by: Lillianna ]

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by the way, speaking of exes, I have an opposite situation from Belly. Nick keeps trying to get me to come onto the webcam to assist his "tension releasing sessions" (that's about as mildly as I can put it). I laugh in his face. That's what porn is for, dude.
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What?! You shouldn't just laugh in his face, you should put a hammer right where his mouth is!

Look, he broke up with you, and he knows you're struggling emotionally, and this controlling son of a b*tch asks you to assist him sexually? What a jerk.

It's strange how people can fall apart once they show you their other side.

He's left you. It's his loss. You'll find a nicer guy in the future, 100%. He, on the other hand, will get what he has sown.

Seriously...

Thene, how nice to see you - and of course I know that bisexual people do not like to trample on emotions out of principle.

Oh, I forgot: I have no emotions since I am "too rational". []

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You're not too rational - most guys generally deal with emotional things rationally, but it does not mean they have dismissed emotion altogether. [] Besides, you're German. Rationality is in your blood. []
By the way you're sweet and I adore you. [] As for this:
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Look, he broke up with you, and he knows you're struggling emotionally, and this controlling son of a b*tch asks you to assist him sexually? What a jerk.
He never straight out asks it and he says "I would never ask you for something like that" but he makes TONS of hints and suggestions, especially like, "well if you wouldn't have a problem... then of course I wouldn't!" [] Stuff like that. It's true, I could tell him off, but I really don't want to give him the time of day for that. So I ignore and usually end the conversation shortly thereafter. With something along the lines of "well, enjoy yourself alone then. I'll be going to volunteer with the abandoned animals at the SPCA. Cheerio!"
I'm done crying over him, basically. [] When we do talk, it's usually about movies or I have a computer question. And that's pretty much it.

[ 02-10-2009, 08:15 PM: Message edited by: Lillianna ]

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Thank you again, it's very nice of you to respect my German nature. []

Well, that he doesn't ask directly makes it even more pathetic. I concur that it's probably best to ignore it, thus giving him a hard time and some incentive to think about himself.

OTOH, I must hand it to the guy. [] I wouldn't even know where to start to allude to asking you to do whatever is it he wants without actually coming clean about his intentions. I lack subtlety in that department, perhaps. [] However, the request is simply indecent since for all he knows, you could still be crying over him. Good think you don't.

In that vein, I got a funny reaction out of my ex today. When we were talking about the job on the market, I said "Look, I'm not mad at her, because I'm not mad at you, and I can do that because I like you, but I don't love you any more, ok?". I could tell that shocked her a bit. But if that shocked her, why did she insist on informing me before that she and that girl are still going at it? []

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*sings* "I don't love you anymore.... and we're dancing." *hugs Wolfsheim, who is now broken up* [] *cries*

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thus giving him a hard time
You bet it was giving him a hard time. [] [] By the way, I also lack subtlety. As you have already seen here in my shameless way about me. But it's also charmingly shameless, don't you think? [] That's what makes me so loveable. []

*ego grows to dangerous size*

I'm proud of you Belly. [] Good way to handle the ex! Let her know you're doing just fine and that you have lots of hot women after you. []

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That's what makes me so loveable.
O RLY ? []

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Says Howza to all! Keep on going about ones personal life the people that are doing it! It's all right. It's not like anyone other than MTers read this thread after all! Theney, that loss of the use of an arm sounded painful! Ouch. Inserts ouch smiley.
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I can't make the first move. At this point, I am way too fragile. People say "Take chances! Eventually it will come out alright!" but it never has for me. All of the chances I took in relationships were met with failure. Always painful and sometimes humiliating. So right now, I need someone else to come to me. I need to know from the get-go that my feelings are reciprocated before I put them out there. I don't have enough self-esteem to tell someone "I like you" only to see them shuffle in an embarassed way. Watch the wheels turn as they try to think of a nice way to tell me they just want to be friends. I can't go through that again.

People say "But they might feel the same way! What if they are too scared to talk to you?" and well, that's just too bad. I'm friendly, I hint as much as I can without being totally obvious, and that's all I can do. I can't go so far that it counts as a risk.

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Nick keeps trying to get me to come onto the webcam to assist his "tension releasing sessions" (that's about as mildly as I can put it).
Are you f*cking KIDDING? WOW. That's a pretty awful thing to do to the woman you broke up with.

Lillerz, you are too good to him, talking with him at all. Imho.

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The UP regulars don't always seem to do well in the love department, do they? []
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You mean there is a love department?
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Yeah, second story between lingerie and kid's shoes. []
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Are you f*cking KIDDING? WOW. That's a pretty awful thing to do to the woman you broke up with.

Lillerz, you are too good to him, talking with him at all. Imho.

You know, I probably did bring this upon myself by initiating contact again (although I don't remember who first initiated after the two months or so). So I understand the risks I'm taking, but honestly, it has helped me to get over it. [] To see how apathetic he is about all of it... really opens my eyes. That he really doesn't want a relationship or me. He's immature. He'll grow up. It's just a shame that I chose to believe it was something more than it was. [] Oh well. But I feel no obligation towards him or anything. And certainly, I'm not going to give into his requests. [] I've learned to be stronger from this relationship, so I guess that's a good thing in a way. []
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Of course, there is always something to learn from every 'failure' []
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You guys are the best, you know that?

Lilli: He has told Mike (Stef's bf) that he's attracted to me and likes me but obviously can't do anything 'cause he has a girlfriend. So I know there's something there. I'm not worried about the friend-shelfing with him because it's not like we were super close from the start, we're only NOW starting to get to know each other little by little.

Losty: That's EXACTLY the case here. He's been in this relationship for so long that he doesn't know any better, what he could have with someone else, who's actually fun and nice and allows him his freedom. That psycho once yelled at him because Mike suggested to him that he should buy a T-shirt that said: "Sex, Drugs and Physics" on it. []

Eric's a physicist, they obviously are sexually active, and they used to smoke pot, so what that nutjob was angry about I have no idea.

Bele, you know, that's what Stef has been telling me to do also. Her suggestion is to say something like: "I completely respect the fact that you have a girlfriend, but I want to let you know that I'm interested in you, and if you guys don't work out, I would love to give us a try." Or something to that extent.

Last time I told a guy I like him it blew up in my face so I'm having a lot of fearful thoughts about this, but if the perfect moment and opportunity comes along, I think I'll tell him.

Thanks for all the helpful advice, you guys. I honestly REALLY like this guy and you all know that I haven't really liked a guy in like... what, 5 years? Not since David and the über heartbreak from hell. []
-Keo

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Apparently, I'm a horrible RPer.
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I is sooooooooooooo tired! [] I saw Keane playing last night, didn't hit the sack until 2 this morning and was up again at 6 to go to work []
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My take on the above conversation FWIW:
If two people are in a relationship then it's an unfair pressure for another person to put on that relationship (and a rather selfish action) to tell either person in the said relationship that one has 'feelings' for them.
If that relationship is in trouble then one is adding to their seeds of doubt and just giving that person a kind of, "hey bud, the grass is/could be greener this side of the fence" option.
Personally I'd leave well alone until that relationship broke up; and I AM following my own advice on this []

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I don't know who told you that, Ammii, but it's nonsenese. You are an excellent RPer, as far as I'm concerned. Some things you write could be published.
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Tell that to the people who kicked me out of their RP because they thought I sucked. []
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Was that here?
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No.
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Jackson is going to be on Criminal Minds
I know. [] He will never be the cutest skinny geek on there though. ILU REID []

Lills, that is so disgusting I don't even know where to start. [] What a scumbag; I would end all contact if it was me.

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