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Peter_20
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I was actually a bit surprised when I found out that I was not alone about feeling completely wretched when a crush didn't return my feelings, because I thought I was making a too big thing about it, and everybody else took it easy; but that wasn't true.

Anyway, how do you feel when you interest is not returned?
I've been lucky enough to only feel terrible because of this once, and it was indeed painful - I almost felt as if I'd lost all of my friends or something, I was afraid of being alone, and I always wanted people around me.
I couldn't focus on anything at all, and I spent a lot of time just staring out in the air.
I never cried or anything, but I felt extremely fragile, and I felt like this for a few weeks.

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I can't relate, I've always been so pathetically shy that none of my crushes ever knew they were being crushed [] All in all, even tho' it hurts, at least now you know and can move on, I'd say you're better off in the long run even tho' you feel like hell right now. There's a lot of hotties out there, keep your eyes open, your next crush may be just around the next corner. []

You make it sound like it's more than a crush on a classmate or something.. is this a close friend and that's why you're anxious about your friends and so forth?

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i agree dont get worked up just rethink your plan and start a new stradgy remeber sitting down and have a crush dosent do anything you got to fight for it
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i can relate to you the best thing if you see know light is to pick up and keep going
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You make it sound like it's more than a crush on a classmate or something.. is this a close friend and that's why you're anxious about your friends and so forth?

Nah, it's pretty complicated:
the girl I mentioned was my classmate for five years, and then she changed class but we still went at the same school.
The thing is that I've always felt a very particular "bond" to this girl for some reason, probably because we both were aware of our interest to each other but my shyness stopped everything; and besides, our parents are also somewhat acquantied and have met and chatted and so on, and this girl also shared my interests a great deal.
If you add to all this the fact that we live in a really small village (I'm talking about a population of less than 3000 people), then you get a good idea at how personal things could feel, especially since we first met at first grade when we were 7 years old.

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Generally, I am not too upset, unless she gets a restraining order.
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I agree with ZEN on this one.
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Crushed.
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Crushed is only the half of it.

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